It’s the kind of entry I have no idea how to even give it a title. But I know I must leave this package here for those who should see to know.

Have you wondered why we are around in this world? What’s the purpose of our existence? This is a difficult question no one can answer. But yet, that answer can be found within ourselves. Let just go all the way back to the time of birth. At the moment we are born, we are automatically bestowed with a purpose to eat. If anyone can remember, the most common phrase we would hear our parents say would be “Eat more, so you grow taller…”. Now when you are at school, we are bestowed with a purpose to study. Of course, the most common phrases you will hear would be “Study hard, I’ll buy you a toy when you pass with good grades..”, “Study hard, so others will not look down on you…” or “Study hard and you will get the course/school you want…”. Finally, when we are working, we are bestowed with the purpose to achieve. The common phrases we will hear would be “If I work hard enough, I will get a promotion…”, “If I am willing to think of new ideas, I will be able to be an entrepreneur…” or “If I’m able to pull this off, I will be a millionaire…”. We create what we are in this world. Our identity, motive and reason in all.

But life itself comes with some surprise and maybe some tragedies. Ups and downs. It’s a perfect balance. “You reap what you sow…”, “Failure is the mother of success…” or “No pain, no gain…”. These are the some of the common advice we will hear. They are usable in all aspect of life. Then, we are not alone in this world. There are all kinds of people in this world. Each person with his/her own set of principle and character. We learn how to talk or rather socialise with different people. Sometimes, we learn to gain friends and sometimes make enemies. Finally, we learn how to love a person.

“Love itself is a knowledge…” is a phrase I totally agree on. When we love a person, we are also accepting him/her as what they are and as a part of our life. We wish him/her to be happy to be with us and also care about them. But love do not necessarily means possession of him/her. We can love a person but it doesn’t mean we need to be always by his/her side nor he/she has to be always by my side. Love is a feeling where we know there’s a person who cares about us or someone we care about.

Finally, love can be blind. We sometimes have no idea the words we say or actions we do have any form of influence on others. We would need to learn how to balance or make sacrifices to love and personal life together. Love can cause internal strife between friends and even complicated relationships. Homosexuality, love triangle and even family problems. Love can also lead people to do foolish and irrational things.

I finally come up with the title. Not as to play God but then we are the God of our life. Now my wish is the circle can still sustain with the axis around. Haiz…

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